And yet, it is a question deeply rooted in Scripture. The Bible is not shy about pain. It is not embarrassed by tears. It is not allergic to hard questions. In fact, it is the place where the deepest cries of suffering are recorded for all to see. Job cried out, “Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him” (Job 13:15). David asked, “How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?” (Psalm 13:1). Even Jesus himself, hanging on the cross in agony, cried out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). The Bible gives us permission to bring our honest pain before God. It shows us that faith is not pretending that everything is fine. Faith is bringing our wounds to the God who sees, even when we do not understand what He is doing.
So how can a good God let us suffer? The first truth Scripture shows us is that God’s goodness is not the absence of suffering but His presence in suffering. When the Israelites walked through the wilderness, God did not take away the desert. He did not remove the heat, the hunger, or the thirst. But He walked with them in a pillar of cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night. He provided manna every morning and water out of unexpected rocks. His goodness showed up not in removing the wilderness, but in sustaining them through it. Many times, we want God to eliminate the problem because to us that feels like love. But God wants to walk with us through the problem because to Him that builds trust, depth, perseverance, and intimacy. Isaiah 43:2 reminds us, “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you… when you walk through the fire, you will not be burned.” God never said there would be no waters or no fire. He said you would not face them alone.
The second truth is that suffering is not always punishment. Many believers secretly carry guilt, wondering if their pain is somehow deserved. But Scripture repeatedly shows us that suffering often hits the righteous, not because they are guilty, but because this world is broken. Job’s suffering was not a result of sin. Joseph’s betrayal was not God punishing him. Daniel in the lions’ den was not because he had done wrong. Lazarus’s sickness was not because God was angry. Jesus told His disciples plainly, “In this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33). Trouble is part of life in a fallen world, but God’s goodness is part of life in His kingdom. The two coexist, but the kingdom will outlast the suffering. God’s goodness is not cancelled by your pain. It is revealed through it.
The third truth is that God uses suffering to produce something in us that comfort never could. This is not to minimize the reality of your pain; it is to remind you that suffering is never wasted. Paul writes in Romans 5:3–4 that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance produces character, and character produces hope. Think about that for a moment. Hope is not born in seasons of ease. It grows in the soil of difficulty. When you walk through hardship and discover that you are still standing, still breathing, still praying, still believing, a kind of hope grows in you that nothing can take away. It is a hope rooted not in circumstances but in the faithfulness of God.
If you look at the people God used in Scripture, you will notice that almost all of them were shaped by suffering. Moses ran for his life and spent forty years in the wilderness before he became a leader. David was anointed king but spent years hiding in caves before he could sit on the throne. Esther risked her life to save her people. Ruth walked through grief and relocation before God restored her joy. Peter wept bitter tears of failure before he became the rock of the early church. Paul suffered beatings, imprisonments, shipwrecks, loneliness, and betrayal, yet he wrote more words about joy and grace than almost anyone else. These people were not shaped by comfort. They were shaped by the God who carried them through pain. And the same God who shaped them is shaping you.
The fourth truth is that God sees the whole story while we see only the chapter we are living. We often judge God’s goodness by the page we are currently on. If the page is full of disappointment, we assume God is distant. If the page is full of loss, we assume God is punishing us. If the page is full of silence, we assume God has forgotten us. But God is the author, not the reader. He sees the ending before we experience the beginning. He understands how this chapter fits into the masterpiece He is writing with your life. Romans 8:28 does not say all things are good. It says God works all things together for good to those who love Him. This means He weaves pain and joy, tears and laughter, storms and sunshine into a story that ends with redemption.
Sometimes God lets us walk through suffering because there is something on the other side that we cannot see yet. Joseph could not see the palace while he was in the pit. Hannah could not see Samuel while she was weeping in the temple. The woman with the issue of blood could not see her healing while she spent twelve years in desperation. But God saw it all. And God sees what you cannot see. He sees healing where you see hurt. He sees growth where you see grief. He sees purpose where you see pain.
The fifth truth is that God Himself knows what suffering feels like. Christianity is the only faith where God is not distant from human sorrow but enters it fully. Jesus wept. Jesus was betrayed. Jesus felt hunger, exhaustion, rejection, loneliness, and agony. He knows the weight you carry because He carried it too. Hebrews 4:15 reminds us that we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses. Jesus does not watch you suffer from a distance; He sits with you in it. Every tear you cry is known to Him. Every fear you whisper is heard by Him. Every ache in your heart is understood by Him. You are never alone in your pain because God Himself has walked the path of suffering.
The sixth truth is that suffering does not have the final word. God does. Suffering may wound, but God heals. Suffering may last, but God restores. Suffering may break the heart, but God binds it. Psalm 30:5 reminds us that “weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” Morning always comes, even if the night feels too long. Even if the tears seem endless. Even if the pain feels too heavy. Night does not stay forever. And neither will your suffering. God is a Redeemer. He never leaves His children in ashes without giving them beauty. He never leaves them in mourning without giving them joy. He never leaves them in despair without planting hope.
So when you ask, “How can a good God let me suffer?” perhaps the real invitation is to look for His goodness in the middle of it. Maybe His goodness is in the strength that keeps you going when you want to give up. Maybe His goodness is in the friend who checked on you, the prayer you prayed through tears, the courage that rose in you even when you felt too tired to continue. Maybe His goodness is in the gentle whisper that reminds you that you are still loved, still seen, still held. Maybe His goodness is in the quiet assurance that this season, painful as it is, is not the end of your story.
God’s goodness is not proven by how easy your life is. It is proven by how present He is in the hardest moments. He is the God who stays close to the brokenhearted. He is the God who binds wounds. He is the God who carries burdens. He is the God who turns mourning into dancing. He is the God who uses suffering, not to destroy us, but to refine us, strengthen us, deepen us, and draw us closer to Him.
The truth is, suffering will always raise questions. But God will always remain the answer. He does not ask you to understand everything. He asks you to trust Him through everything. Even when the path hurts. Even when the tears fall. Even when the prayers seem slow to be answered. Even when you do not know what tomorrow holds. The God who was good yesterday is good today and will still be good tomorrow. His goodness is not shaken by your circumstances. And neither is His love for you.
When you cannot see His hand, you can trust His heart. When you cannot trace the purpose, you can rest in His presence. And when life hurts more than you can bear, you can lean on the One who carried the cross and will carry you too. God is still good. Even here. Even now. Even in this.



